We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve
been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no
right person, just different flavors of wrong.
Why is this?
Because you
yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong
in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully
into your own wrongness. And it is not until you finally run up against
your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems, the ones that make you
truly who you are, that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do
you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong
person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person, someone
you lovingly gaze upon and think...
“This is the problem I want to have.”
And I'm just glad I found that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way. Nami-miss ko lang si hubbee =(
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